SILENT CRY FOR HELP. URGENT

Shocked to read the title? This is the story of one of my dear close friend (whose name and place cannot be mentioned). She’s just like any other normal girl. Found out the long-waited-Mr.-One and Only, Mr.-whom-I-like-to-get-married-to, Mr.-Perfect, the-Knight-saving-the-Damsel-in-Distress all in one package. Except that he’s not actually quite one. When they’re ok, she’s glowing so bright and so happy that you felt that this is what it feels to finally met the one. Unfortunately, the sky is never blue and clear all the time. There are always times for black clouds, thunder and lightning to gather to. And there’ll be storm once in a while.

She’s barely hanging there. Last time I talk to her, she clearly looked like she almost lost it. She looks like a walking zombie (literally). She radiates such a black gloomy aura around her that you cannot help but feel it too. Deeply in grieve, confused, betrayed, and yes lonely even though she have one. It pains me to see her like that when she’s actually one of my consoler. What a wonder actually to see what the unreal love can do to you…

All I can do for her is just back her up in my do’a just like what she wants me to. Although I’m clearly sure that what I’m gonna ask Him for her is not the same as to what she wanted. She wanted ‘them’ to be together, happy again like always, married with kids, while I’m just hoping that He gives her what best for her. All that I can say to her is that in times like this, the most important thing is TO KEEP BELIEVING IN HIM, never ever lose faith in him, and He knows what best for each one of us. And of course, everything happens for a reason. All the suffering that we’ve been through WILL be gone. We will get through it as long as you still have Him in your heart. Whenever you ask Him for something, He will give it to you; it’s just a matter of time – short or long. And if not, He will give you something else – better than before. That’s His promise.

Well, I think I need to point the obvious here. THE ONE AT FAULT IS US. We are the one that close the road; blocks the blessings from Him. When something goes wrong, we get nervous or moody and started asking help from Him (finally..!). When the help doesn’t look like its gonna come or what we wish for somehow haven’t happen yet, we’re getting angry, restless, and blaming Him for not helping us or for whatever bad things that happened. Worse, there even person who lose faith entirely to God.

Why don’t we take some time to reflect, look back deep within ourselves… we are the ones that makes all the kind of things that keep putting us away from Him day by day. We’re not even do what we’re supposed to do (the least is amal makruf nahi mungkar); at the same time we expect Him to just grant all our wishes?? Be wise and think again… Do not let yourself being consumed in the endless-helpless-bottomless-pit of suffering. Come back to Him- the REAL ONE AND ONLY.